Practical checks

Before you make contact

Check the profile, protect your personal details and take time to verify payment requests.

Use the filters, then read the profile

Start with location and service filters, but make the final decision from the full profile. Check the latest availability label, dates, contact preference and indicative fee.

Keep precise information private

Do not put an exact address, hotel or room number, identity document, banking credential or unnecessary personal detail in a first message. Share only what is needed, at the appropriate time.

Watch for payment pressure

Pause if someone demands unusual gift cards, cryptocurrency, account credentials or an urgent transfer to a different name. Confirm the recipient and cancellation terms directly. The directory does not collect appointment payments.

Do not treat badges as guarantees

Publication, review status, sponsored position or an organization association does not remove the need for your own checks. Online information can also change after it is published.

Keep a personal safety plan

Consider a trusted-person check-in, your own transport and a clear exit plan. Leave or end contact whenever something feels wrong.

Use the right reporting route

Report inaccurate or unsafe profile content from the profile page. Preserve relevant evidence without publishing it. For immediate danger in New Zealand call 111.

Respectful communication works best

Clear dates, times, duration and expectations are more useful than vague or repeated messages. Read Client etiquette before making first contact.

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